Experiences of Life

I hardly open up to details of my relationship. But when I go on, the one question which everyone asks is, "what took you so long?".  The average understanding of these narcissistic relationships is really low. The reason for being in it for so long is not a simple answer. My own shortcomings, past, my nature, me trusting her blindly, Love, etc, etc.  But why I ended up leaving was due to being in a place of forever frustration, exasperation, fear, confusion. These are not healthy states to be in. And this as well was addressed by my doctor. As I was in denial that I am in this state because of the woman I love and stay under the same roof with. Whom I share my bed with and to whom I am committed for life.  Ending a relationship is difficult. If both of you are healthy individuals then maybe both of you can acknowledge it and end it amicably. Both of them will feel the hurt, pain but then would somewhere be thankful to each other for all the good times. But in a narcissis...

  New Year, New Me.  Well, with this motto I have started my new year. But going forward what have I learned is in this blog. This article is here as on the night of 30th December, sitting with random strangers, I realised this. We were all a little drunk. Goa on 30th December is probably the place to be if you love to Party. Believe it or not, I was on a work trip till the 29th.  So, I decided to give myself a 24hr holiday and gave myself 30th Dec with a flight on 31st back to my hometown. Met a few strangers at the pool in my hotel, one kind of smiled and I smiled back. It's a match !. She asked," want to join ?". With absolute, no hesitation and I said, "sure". She sat behind my bike and we were at the beach in the next 15mins. The clock said 1:30AM but we were just getting started. Few beers in and the topic became, "relationships". With the Arabian sea at its high tide and a cool breeze in my head, I started with the little sad story of mine on my...

  Before you go crazy, let me explain. Women can love and do love but are incapable of loving you in a way you want them to. The real reason I am writing this today is because of the realisation I had not too long ago. The entire world is divided into the Red & Blue Pill communities. Once you have become a member of the Red pill the entire world around you changes.  The boy band songs you heard about, "come back baby", "you are my world"; start sounding like jokes. The way you start looking at the women after becoming red pill is different. Way different from the Blue pill world. You just cannot relate to things which many people sadly are today. They are mostly your family members, co-workers, friends and even your girlfriend for that matter.  The hard part is that when you are aware of the truth, you realize that women, in general, are nothing like what Disney movies showed. In fact, they are polar opposite. They are engineered way different than what was assu...

From the very start, I remember every man in my life telling me that communication is the way. But over my time dealing with women from different states, cities. nationalities I have figured out something. Communication might be the best policy but there are few things that no women, in general, do not want men to know.  No, no don't worry these ain't some ancient techniques I am talking about. These are a few so call open secrets which you will know if you can find out on your own or by getting someone's knowledge.  These are things about how to deal with them and maybe they help you in your relationships navigate a little better. Less stress and more fun is our motto here. So without further adieu let's get this going.  1) Women have Lower Expectations than what you think - You ask a woman what type of a man she wants and most of them have one standard answer:  Tall. Rich. Handsome. Ambitious. bla bla bla. But do all of them get this type of a man !!!?? . The answe...

  From the years of experience in this world and the dating scene, one thing which I have learned is that emotions and feelings are the foundation of any relationship. Anger is the most important of all. Anger can be very good for the relationship if channelled well. The problem is everyone knows how to get angry but very few know how to use it to make the relationship stronger.  If your girl is angry, there’s probably a good reason why. Anger is the emotion that tells us when something doesn’t seem right or fair or that we feel threatened in some way—and in today’s world, there are lots of things that might fit the bill. From not so important things like not liking her Instagram picture to why you do not like her cat. The list of " I am angry about" is way bigger than any galaxy. Even the creator himself is also not sure as to what can trigger it.  But even if she is angry on a subject which she thinks is a waste of time and her state is not making you angry, s...

  With this modern dating and modern woman, I am a little confused. Plus this bombardment of validation from these absolute simps on social media really does little to help.  This new definition of feminism has also changed the dynamics from the last 5-6 years. After escaping the emotionally abusive marriage of close to 2.5years, I have now given myself to experience absolute freedom again.  This freedom is to understand women. The woman I fell in love with not only tricked me into believing she loved me but also mind fucked in making me believe I don't bring anything to the table. Whereas, I was the only one who was actually bringing value to the relationship. I was the only one giving and getting absolute peanuts or not even those in return.  This made me think and realise that there is a lot more variety, negative, toxic type in the women species than I was actually aware of. And women in general have a survival instinct in them. As men would go away to fight the ...

  With my own experience of meeting, dating, and watching these modern women; I have never seen or heard once that a woman left an ass, **** man. The one who does not make her happy. Emotionally abuses her by taking on this mental rollercoaster where she can't get enough of him. I have never seen a single woman leaving.  Like these women won't ever cheat on this guy. They will be loyal and nice to him. They will never leave.  The funny thing is in the end it's the guy. It's the guy who leaves. Even though these guys will take these women to absolute cleaners but still they would not LEAVE ! .  It's actually this bad guy who dumps, jumps to another younger chick, or find's an excuse to end it. And after it's done, they go on a rant that they will never do that again. Anyone who does this again, they will not stay there for a second. But there is such a high possibility if it happens again, she will stay again. The reason is simple, they just can't get eno...