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The Path to a Fulfilling Relationship: Lessons from 'Lucky Man' by The Verve"

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My job revolves around music and sports. Sports teaches me to keep getting up, no matter how hard you get hit. The songs are more about love, hate, relationships. One of my favourite songs is ,"LuckyMan" by the band THE VERVE. Really don't know if many of you have heard of them or this song. But just give it a hear today and read the blog alongside.  In the world of music, few songs capture the essence of gratitude and contentment in love quite like "Lucky Man" by the British rock band The Verve. Released in 1997 as part of their iconic album "Urban Hymns," this song has not only stood the test of time but has also provided valuable insights into relationships. As we delve into the lyrics of this timeless track, we can uncover essential lessons that can help us build and maintain fulfilling relationships. Verse 1: "Happiness, more or less, it's just a change in me, something in my liberty" The opening lines of "Lucky Man" remin

Navigating Modern Dating: The Challenges Faced by Men and the Ghosting Phenomenon

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Introduction In the world of modern dating, navigating the complexities of forming genuine connections can be a daunting task. While both men and women face their fair share of challenges, being a man in today's dating landscape brings its own set of unique obstacles. One of the most prevalent and frustrating experiences for men is the phenomenon of being ghosted. It often leaves them wondering if opening up emotionally scares women away. In this article, we will delve into the reasons behind this perception, debunk common myths, and provide insights to help men overcome these challenges. Understanding the Ghosting Phenomenon Ghosting, the act of suddenly cutting off all communication without explanation or warning, has become an unfortunate hallmark of modern dating. Men frequently find themselves on the receiving end of this behavior, leading to feelings of confusion, self-doubt, and frustration. It's essential to recognize that ghosting is not exclusive to one gender; both

The Dance of Disorganized Attachment in a Narcissistic Relationship

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Introduction: Navigating relationships can be a complex and intricate process, with various attachment styles influencing how individuals connect and interact with one another. One particularly challenging dynamic is the interplay between disorganized attachment and narcissism. Disorganized attachment, characterized by fear, unpredictability, and conflicting emotions, can intertwine with narcissistic tendencies, creating a toxic and volatile relationship environment. In this article, we will delve into the ways disorganized attachment manifests in a narcissistic relationship, shedding light on the dynamics and offering insights for those seeking understanding or healing. 1) The Cycle of Idealization and Devaluation: In a narcissistic relationship, the disorganized attachment style of the partner can fuel a vicious cycle of idealization and devaluation. The narcissistic individual may alternate between showering their partner with adoration and belittling them, leaving the disorganized

Long -Distance Relationship

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  Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but they can also be incredibly rewarding if both partners are committed to making them work. Whether you're starting a new long-distance relationship or trying to maintain one that's already underway, there are several strategies you can use to keep the love and connection alive, even when you're miles apart. Set clear expectations and boundaries One of the most important things you can do to make a long-distance relationship work is to set clear expectations and boundaries with your partner. Discuss your needs, your schedule, your communication preferences, and your goals for the relationship. Make sure you both understand what is and isn't acceptable in terms of communication, time commitment, and fidelity. This will help prevent misunderstandings and conflicts down the road. Communicate regularly and creatively Communication is the foundation of any relationship, but it's especially important in a long-distance o

When women try to be the man in the relationship

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Before diving into this topic, it's important to acknowledge that gender roles and expectations are largely societal constructs and that there is no one "right" way for a relationship to look or function. However, it's also important to recognize that many people have deeply ingrained beliefs about what it means to be a man or a woman in a relationship and that when those expectations are not met, it can lead to feelings of confusion and even betrayal. With that said, let's explore why some men might feel betrayed when women try to take on a more traditionally masculine role in a relationship. It's not uncommon for men to feel a sense of betrayal when women try to take on traditionally masculine roles in relationships. This can manifest in various ways, from feeling emasculated to feeling like their partner is trying to control them. But why does this happen? One reason is rooted in societal expectations and gender roles. For many generations, men were expect

Will Love Once again

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A heart once full of love and life, Now shattered by painful strife. A man who loved with all his heart Now left alone, torn apart. His once happy home, now a place of pain, A broken heart, a shattered chain.  The vows they took, now broken in two, Leaving him lost, not knowing what to do. The memories of the past, now haunt his dreams, A love that was once pure, now torn at the seams.  The emptiness he feels, deep in his soul, A pain that only time can console. The nights are long, the days are cold, His broken heart, a story untold.  He walks alone, with tears in his eyes, Wondering how he'll ever survive. But deep within, he finds the strength, To pick himself up, and go to any length.  He knows he deserves a love that's true, And someday, he'll find it too. For even though his heart is broken, He'll rise again, a love unspoken.  And though his past may have caused him pain, He'll find love and happiness once agai

When she says,"I need space"

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  Today, we stay in a society where everything is more hidden than visible. Even in the most important relationship, people hide things. I am talking about long-term relationships;i.e- Marriage. One of the most common terminologies I have heard being used is, 'I need space". Now the reason why they say the partner wanted space was because of some depression they have been going through or some mid-life crisis. Another is, I want to myself as I cannot think what I want. Or on the flip side, you think she is non-committal and is not ready for a long-term relationship.  But these things are said because she has decided to part ways. What if I tell you, none of the above is the real reason why she wants to part ways. The problems are actually much deeper but in actuality very simple to resolve than you think. I will try and cover points such as what she won't tell you and what she can't tell you.  If you go through these modern sayings instead then it will actually rob you