Get your Dating Basics Right

Ah, flirtation! In the beginning stages of attraction, men and women engage in an awkward and unrehearsed dance to test the waters for a long-term relationship. If you're savvy to the signs of whether your affections might be returned, you'll have no problems in taking your romance to the next step but if not then probably back off and Switch on your GPS again . 

58 percent of love stories end before they even start because of lack of observation.Girl keeps giving you signals but you have no idea what is happening and forcing her to realize you are not Interested. Few are some signals but they are through my observation and personal touch so,use them if you feel they are good enough but I don't guarantee. 

 1-EYE CONTACT It's often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. This is especially true as a woman's eyes will reflect her joy, her sincerity...and her suspicions. Does she maintain good eye contact with you when the two of you are talking or she searches of something--or someone--more interesting to her? Not only will a woman's eyes communicate that she is an attentive audience to what you have to say but they will also convey that she is "reading" you as a prospective partner.Eyes will say everything which even words cant say...if read properly. 

 2-AVAILABILITY If after three attempts you have failed to get a date with a certain woman, there's a better than average chance that she is either already spoken for or just doesn't see you as being her type.you need to remember that she knows her mind and her heart better than you do and you have little choice but to honor that. There's also a possibility that your timing has caught her during an extraordinarily frenetic crunch of prior commitments. If she's interested in you, be alert to clues such as,Could we make it a Tuesday instead?" or "I've got a houseful of relatives staying with me THIS Weekend. 

 3.-THE POWER OF COMPLIMENTS If you happen to remark that black is your favorite color or if you compliment her on a different hairstyle, it's a sure cue to her that you have noticed how she looks. If black suddenly seems to infiltrate the lady's wardrobe or if she keeps that hairstyle as her new look, it's a Perfect cue to you that she wants to maintain whatever it is that has captivated you. Your favorite artist is hers now or any change which has come after you have come in her life and was yours trademark is probably a cue...I am Interested. 

 4.-BODY LANGUAGE Does she lean forward when you're talking? Does she slip her arm in yours when you're out for a walk? Does her hand or arm accidentally brush against yours? Hundreds of books have been written on the topic of body language but the essence of all of them can be distilled to a single fact when it comes to Physical chemistry.If she is trying to be a bit warm and is displaying her best assets,its pretty likely she is trying to get you to pay closer attention to her. This is something you will notice pretty easily ,but dont be dumb and take normal Hug as Chemistry. 

 5.-LIKE FIRST, LOVE LATER A woman who comments that she likes your company is going to be a better bet for the long run than someone who declares her shes bored of your talks on the very first date. Even if it does turn out to have been a mutual case of love at first sight, there's no need into rush things. Friendship--based on common interests, goals and values--is the cornerstone of a successful romance and marriage. A woman who is too quick to press for a romantic commitment is more interested in the physical security of being half of a couple than in making the emotional investment to get to know you—and like you—as a person. I have become very emotional because my past and sometimes behave like a complete idiot without thinking and have seen many doing the same.


 The best way to actually check according to super greats and which even works is actually setting the girl free for sometime.Its very important to check its one way traffic or not . Obviously,you dont want to even end your friendship with somebody who you think is good looking nice girl. Give her that Freedom which she had before you came to existence in her life.If she think you are that one guy she wants to go out with or thinks the one who can keep her happy will come back,if she doesn't then convince yourself probably you have to wait a bit more for that perfect girl. 

 And Be yourself. 

A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of Hollywood Casanova.

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